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| Title: | Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway | ||||
| Author: | Susan Jeffers holds a doctorate in psychology and is a world renowned self help guru. Having written over 17 books, this is the one that launched her literary career. | ||||
| Category: | Personal Development | ||||
| What the book is about: | |||||
| We all have some fear when we are undertaking activities outside of our comfort zones and this book resolves that we should do the activities in spite of the fear.The Fears addressed in the book are not just the procrastination of facing that your marriage has failed or the fear of making a sales call but can include all fears including heights etc. The book is about creating empowerment to face those fears.
To quote from the book “Anyone reading the book has made the decision that they aren’t currently where they want to be”. If there is anyone reading this review that isn’t currently where they want to be then maybe this is the book for them. The problem isn’t the fear but how we hold that fear. If we hold the fear from a position of choice and power then the fear doesn’t win. If we hold it from a position of pain and hopelessness the fear wins. It’s about responsibility, we have to make the decision as to how we are going to experience situations and not be a victim. As well as examples the book provides exercises to expand our comfort zones. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
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| An age old classic that provides some basic insights into the subconscious. | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| I liked the fact that when some of Susan’s students expressed guilt at leaving their negative friends, she pointed out that they where assuming that the friends weren’t strong enough to survive without them. | |||||
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| Although this is a small paperback it lasts for six hours when it is converted into an audio book! I’m sure it wouldn’t lose any of the quality if it was more condensed. | |||||
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| Title: | Networking Magic – 366 Hot Networking Tips | ||||
| Author: | Robyn Henderson is an international networking specialist who has authored and contributed to over twenty books | ||||
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| This is one of a group of books on Networking by Henderson and with 366 Networking Tips, that’s one for each day of the year (even on a leap year).Individuals tend to network on an ad hoc basis but in order to be effective our networking needs to be consistent. Here we are provided a twelve month networking plan.
By providing a month by month plan throughout the year this book maintains a steady flow of energy to negate unnecessary highs and lows. The exercises and reviews allow us to test and measure different methods of networking and to set expectations in order to refine our networking skills. The monthly plan including thoughts about Christmas cards and the celebration of other diverse cultural events throughout the year is a great idea. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
YES |
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| Even in today’s high tech world a lot of business is still done face to face. Here is a simple resource for those occasions. | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| It really was a resource full of useful tips. Some we may be practicing already but reminders are always great.The monthly “self networking tracker” table was simple but effective. | |||||
| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| It may seem obvious but I would have included a weekly self networking tracker table. Most people will do this anyway but as there are so many tips in the book It could be overlooked initially. | |||||
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| www.networkingtowin.com.au | |||||
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| Title: | The Business Coach | ||||
| Author: | Bradley J. Sugars is a multi millionaire business coach and the owner of Action International Business Coaching. | ||||
| Category: | Business | ||||
| What the book is about: | |||||
| This parable is framed around a married couple that own a bakery and the process of them taking on a business coach.As we accompany them on their journey, we are lead through the coaches six step process to the businesses progression (Mastery, Niche, Leverage, Team, Synergy and Results).Each of the steps is covered in a methodical way and as the couple complete each step we see the benefits that they achieve by adopting the strategies.
As you may have expected (From a book on business coaching written by a business coach) there is a happy ending to the story. Employing a coach is shown to increase the couples net profit by almost 500% Even taking a cynical view of this book, most small business owners should find some benefit in this refresher on business basics such as Unique Selling Points and lead conversion rates. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
YES |
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| A great book for all small business owners to remind them of the basics. | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| The old adage that facts tell and stories sell is brought home here in the way the story simply gets across the basic business principles. | |||||
| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| The indexing system in the book could benefit from more information.Although the six steps are split down into a form of index at the back of the book, a more detailed index would have made the book easier to navigate. | |||||
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| Title: | Employed But Not Engaged | ||||
| Author: | Michael Smyth is a barrister currently practicing employment law in New Zealand. He is also the owner of approachablelawyer.com | ||||
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| This New Zealand book is a practical guide to getting the right people in the right job and keeping them. If you get the wrong people in the job this book takes you through the processes to rectify the problem whilst reducing any complications.Smyth uses the analogy of personal (marriage) relationships to cleverly frame the relationships between employees and employers.
The book breaks everything down into simple terms and is full of useful tips on employing the right person and getting rid of the wrong person. We are taken from the initial stage of advertising for the right person through performance management and if necessary to Department of Labour mediation. One of the elements of the book is monitoring the employer /employee relationship so that the employees are provided the right atmosphere to keep them engaged, this way both sides benefit. The book recognizes that there are some workers that are doing the bare minimum to avoid being fired. Anyone who has read the 4 hour work week will know that Tim Ferris was disengaged in his paid job whilst he was researching his first online business. Disengaged people aren’t necessarily bad people they may be just misemployed. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
YES |
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| A good resource for any kiwi employer to keep by their desk. Useful as an easy reference book for kiwi employees to ensure both parties are adding value to the relationship. | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| The way the book methodically takes you through each of the stages of the processes. The book is not written as a text book which is why the language is more accessible to the non legal mind.The fact that he addresses that most employers feel they can’t get rid of bad employees without a difficult costly process; his step by step guides in this book dispel that myth. | |||||
| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| As with other books which I have recommended I couldn’t find anything major to improve on. Should anyone else have a view on things that could have been improved please feel free to comment on my blog. | |||||
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| http://www.fishpond.co.nz/ | |||||
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| Title: | Little Gold Book of YES! Attitude | ||||
| Author: | Jeffrey Gitomer is a sales Guru and the best selling author of four sales books. | ||||
| Category: | Personal Development | ||||
| What the book is about: | |||||
| As you would expect from the title this is a book about having a positive attitude.The difference between a standard positive attitude and the “YES” attitude in this book is that with the YES attitude you are focused and portray a perception that your answer to questions will be YES.The book is Split into six elements of Insight to your inside attitude, attitude self awareness, attitude actions, attitude attributes, attitude achievement and attitude fulfilment.
This is a book that provides a group of resources to help you assess and adjust your attitude to a positive setting. These resources include (but are not limited to) a test to see what your positive attitude is and a collection of Gitomer’s affirmations. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
NO |
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| There was nothing new in here and I believe that there are better books out there to help you achieve a positive attitude. | |||||
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| I really liked the idea of replacing “I’m Sorry” with “Thank You” whenever someone yells at you or blames you.I thought the Attitude self test was user friendly and provided a good starting point to indicate how much is required to progress to a more positive attitude. | |||||
| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| I didn’t like the comment around attitude books “Don’t go to the library like a cheap bastard. BUY THE BOOKS”.I agree that some personal development books can be read over and over again and I am a fan of each person having their own library. As Gitomer’s reading list may not coincide with ours, there is nothing wrong with trying a book from the library first in order to decide if it is something we want to add to our library.For a book on positive attitudes the comment could have been framed a lot better.
I wasn’t over fussed at his habit of numbering using decimal points, numbering from 1 to 5 then having 5.5 as the next step instead of 6 did nothing for me. |
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| Title: | Living the 80 / 20 Way | ||||
| Author: | Richard Koch is an entrepreneur and author of over a dozen books including The 80/20 Principle | ||||
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| What the book is about: | |||||
| Similar to Koch’s previous book (The 80 20 Principle) this book expands on the idea that 20% of our actions produce 80% of our results.Here we are shown that this well known business principle is just as relevant in every other area of our life. We are given plans and charts to guide us into working less whilst enjoying our life more.
Koch encourages us to be lazier in the areas that provide us the minimal (20% results) This isn’t just a book about efficiency; it’s about concentrating on the important areas of our lives. We are provided a three step plan to focus on the 20% of actions that give us the 80% of our results for each of the five areas of Self, Work & Success, Money, Relationships and the Simple Good Life. The process requires that we prioritize and then focus on one area at a time. We do not move onto the next area until we have completed the work on the first area. The main thing that we have to do to get the most out of this book is to Change our way of thinking into believing that Less is more. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
YES |
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| A great addition to the library. | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| As you’d expect in a book that is about focusing on smarter use of our time the book is short enough not to be padded out with unnecessary information but big enough to provide a plethora of resources. I liked the focus on happiness and the practical everyday uses that this principle can be adapted to. | |||||
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| It might seem a little pedantic but as he used pie charts to provide pictorial clarity, it would have been more beneficial if the charts had been better labelled and printed in colour instead of grey and white. To me the idea of a graph or chart is that it summarises information and in this case the lacking in detail meant a slight lack of clarity for me. | |||||
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| Title: | What Color is your Parachute | ||||
| Author: | Richard Nelson Bolles is a member of Mensa and a renowned public speaker. | ||||
| Category: | Career | ||||
| What the book is about: | |||||
| This annually reviewed American book is a practical manual for job hunters and career changers.This is primarily a reference book that gives a variety of tools and exercises to assist you in choosing a career direction.It provides practical ways to achieve changes in your current employment situation including sections on ways to hunt for a job, dealing with handicaps, resumes, interviews and salary negotiations.
The annual updates are primarily to include new resources that are continually becoming available as technology and industries progress. The tools in the book are designed not just for job searching but to help you decide on deeper decisions such as your mission in life. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
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| Rather than buying this new I would get this out of the library as it is updated annually. Even a serial career changer would benefit from working with an up to date version | |||||
| What I liked about this book: | |||||
| Very Comprehensive including some very useful exercises for defining your goals.Because it is updated annually second hand book shops and charity shops are usually good sources of historical copies of the book. I have to confess to owning older versions of this book myself as the basic principles provide a good foundation for career guidance. | |||||
| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| Although there is an index at the back I would have preferred a more detailed contents section. The contents Headings cover blocks of thirty to forty pages at a time which doesn’t make rapid searches for information very rapid. | |||||
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| Title: | Man’s Search for Meaning | ||||
| Author: | Victor E. Frankl is a world renowned author who survived the Nazi death camps of world war two and used his experiences to develop his own branch of psychotherapy “Logotherapy”. | ||||
| Category: | Psychology | ||||
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| Considered to be one of the ten most influential books in America, this is a guide to how we can all survive despair by our own choice.Frankl uses his experiences in the death camp to present his theories, which are even more pertinent when we consider that in the death camps he was not employed as a psychologist but underwent the same arduous work and suffering as his fellow inmates.
This inside story of survival in a concentration camp provides an interesting focus on the ways that man can chose his mental attitudes and to survive. This book introduces Logotherapy and gives us an insight in how it relates to people under terrible conditions. This isn’t a book designed to condemn the holocaust but to show how anyone can overcome insurmountable odds He recommends a sense of humour on all occasions (Even in the death camps). The title mans search for meaning doesn’t refer to one meaning that is the be all and end all for everyone but that each individual must find their own life’s meaning. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
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| In the (mass distributed) paperback format it is the kind of book you can keep with you and read over and over again. | |||||
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| I liked the fact that even though he has written lots of books and this one was supposed to be written anonymously this book is his most famous.It was interesting the way in which he asked his patients why they didn’t commit suicide (As a way of finding what they had to live for) and then used their reasoning to reiterate that they had some meaning in their lives.
This wasn’t a flowery book on positive attitude but a reminder of how hard life really can be. |
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| This is not a light book. I realise that the subject matter of life in the death camps is never a light matter but some people may find the in depth psychology references a little heavy compared to a lot of the books out there on attitude. Having read it several times and listened to the audio book (almost five hours long) several times, I sometimes feel it a bit of a slog. | |||||
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| Title: | Vital Friends | ||||
| Author: | Tom Rath Has worked for Gallup for over 12 years (an organization world renowned for “Gallup Polls”), he is also Co author of “How Full is Your Bucket”. | ||||
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| The book concentrates on the benefits that we receive from our closest friends.The term friend is now over used, with the advent of Facebook and other social networks, slight acquaintances are now classed as friends. Vital (True) friends are people that bring something essential to our lives.
Here vital friends are split into eight categories Builders, Champions, Collaborators, Companions, Connectors, Mind Openers Navigators & Energizers. Each of the categories is covered in depth in regard to their benefits and how best to profit from their strengths. Anyone purchasing the book is provided with a unique code that allows them access to a website and allows them to catalogue their own friends into the different categories. The book observes the fact that nowadays we concentrate a lot on self development and personal growth but should spend more time in fostering one on one friendships. We are also informed that in our search for a work life balance it isn’t that easy to have a nice clean demarcation between our work and our family life. An argument before we leave the house for work can start us in a negative spiral for the day and a negative influence at work can follow through into our home life. |
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| Would I buy this book: |
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| It provides different ideas not found on most self development books | |||||
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| The knowledge that in several United States organisations they openly look to restrict fraternizing between co-workers (Even going as far as having confidential informant phone lines) yet research shows best friends at work can result in higher levels of worker engagement.Higher levels of engagement at work mean more productive satisfied workers.
I found it interesting the impact that friends have on our diet and other aspects of our well being. Best Friends with healthy diets and healthy lifestyles tend to foster healthy diets and lifestyles in ourselves, whilst best friends who have a predominantly unhealthy diet have an adverse affect on us. |
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| What I thought could have been improved in this book: | |||||
| I understand the reason to concentrate on the eight categories but I would rather have seen more of the book on other areas of the subject. | |||||
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